When
I go back to South Dakota the day begins, usually, with an early morning
departure – around 6 AM or 7 AM. There are no direct flights into South Dakota
from California so my choice is to go, generally, either through Denver
Colorado or through Salt Lake City Utah. Inevitably, there is a layover at
either airport of anywhere from an hour to four hours before the connecting
flight into Rapid City South Dakota.
Once
I am in Rapid City I either rent a car, or have someone pick me up, or borrow a
car and drive about three hours to the ranch, or now, to Winner South Dakota.
Depending on the length of that layover, and the weather, it can be either one
very long day or two days to get home. The same rhythm applies on the return
trip.
Then,
I find myself in the bosom of my family. Now, make no mistake, I love them all
dearly but… there is always a but… family can always be challenging. There is
always some drama to navigate. There is always some ongoing crisis within which
I can either intervene or avoid. For me it is an extraordinary event to go
there. For them it is me arriving in the midst of their ordinary days. I have
stepped out of my ordinary days, but they have not stepped out of theirs.
Adding
to the mixture warring siblings, aging parents, a sick nephew, and the usual
internal family politics and you have a great visit but not a vacation. This
one was no exception. They’re much more working vacations. But, in spite of
that, I enjoyed the trip. I love my family, all their faults included, just as
they love me with all my faults included. And it is always great to set foot in
the land that gave me birth both physically and psychologically.
I
am a child of the Great Plains. I am a child of an endless horizon. I am a
child of a long summer twilight. The journey from that place to this place
marks the course of my life. That place contains within it numerous essential
landmarks and milestones, memories tied to the land of my birth. It’s a great
journey whenever I go home because many of those memories are flat out
wonderful. So, at the end of the day, I am glad I am a child of that long
summer twilight.
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